Dating artist money
The con artist is telling you what he believes you want to hear to get something from you later. After the con artist has prepared you by showing her best side and by creating instant intimacy, be ready for the other shoe to drop. She might tell you a story of her car breaking down, leaving her with no other way to get to work or take her children to school, for example.
When you are dating someone new, take some time to observe him. People usually look down, blink or cover their mouth while lying. Con artists will keep asking for more and more, while you are getting nothing in return. Becoming involved with a con artist will only lead to disaster for you.
As a result, women in NYC have their guard up, and for good reason – there are tons of creeps out there ruining it for the rest of us. Randi Zuckerberg (sister of Facebook’s CEO, Mark Zuckerberg) says busy people, particularly entrepreneurs, can only have 3 out of these 5 work-life balance items.
That’s a bold statement, but I’d have to agree it’s kind of true.
No one is perfect, and if you point out that you perhaps noticed your date was a little arrogant with the server and she brushes you off or gets angry rather than examining why you would make that observation, that is a bad sign.
Both men and women can be tricked into dating a con artist. You don’t have to give up those qualities to date, but you do need to learn to protect yourself. Con artists are likely to be sociopaths, bullies or narcissists who are looking for non-confrontational, trusting and nice people-pleasers.
Con artists are likely to be sociopaths, bullies or narcissists who are looking for non-confrontational, trusting and nice people-pleasers.
I’ll be writing this article based on my personal experience from a single male’s perspective.
Since I’m NYC based, I’ll be explaining why that makes dating even harder.